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I want to be that mother who can stand up and say I am a strong confident mother and I know what is best for my children. We breastfeed and co sleep, We listen, We include, We eat chocolate and snot smoothies, we trampoline and grow frogs, we sling, we carry and we try and understand and work with our children without resorting to punishments, threats or coercion.
Showing posts with label Fantasy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Fantasy. Show all posts

Thursday, 16 May 2013

Uh oh!! Ain't that the tooth!

In true Ellie style...tragedy, hopefulness and mind wandering....

Dear tooth fary my tooth fell out but I lost it down the plug         hole please give me £5 because that tooth




She's getting a pound. I showed this to hubby he said he'd give her £2!! I don't think that's necessary. 

We spent a long time and effort trying to retrieve it (I was sure I saw it down the hole not washed away yet). Thanks to our friends for keeping Millie out of the manky sink-pipe water and reading to the girls to keep them calm for bed since left to their own devices, they would have started more acrobatics!!

In all honesty, Ellie was happy to know she was still getting money  that the tooth fairy was still coming, it's me that wants to keep her baby teeth!!

I'm actually torn on the fantasy, magic and wonderment and the lie. On one hand they want to believe it and they do, but on the other, I hope they are not disappointed when they find out its not true not us. (Shhh don't tell anyone!) 

I do like how we've written responses and glittered them up, I'm all for artyfarty and pizazz, but surely elaborate lies can never be a good idea!!!

(At least we are not using it as a manipulation tool....if you're not a good boy Santa won't come, if you don't tidy your room, the tooth fairy won't come, if you don't eat your dinner you won't get any Easter eggs)

Thing is, we now have to do it in a similar fashion for all three kids!! 

Talk about all or nothing!! 

Couldn't we have just stuck to a simple quid under the pillow??!!

Meltdowns - very upset (understandably) at lost tooth
Losing the plot - maybe a bit, when computer fell off high shelf and almost hit Millie
Breastfeeding - SO tooooo much at moment


Friday, 11 June 2010

Land of Fantasy

A bedtime Song in our house, I'll sing it to you one day 

Chorus:
Have you ever sat and thought 
of the things you cannot see
Of the bright green sky the rich red grass
the glowing yellow sea
Where the animals and people live in peace and harmony
Its our place of rarest beauty 
Its our land of fantasy


Take my hand you are my friend
come and welcome any stranger
Take my hand and I will lead you
where there's no such thing as danger
True belief is all you really need
as you shall surely see
Its our place of rarest beauty 
Its our land of fantasy

Chorus

Imagination flows fast 
like the purple running river
Fun and music
Dance and laughter
and our world goes on forever
Come on in when you are ready
we have given you the key
Its ours place of rarest beauty
Its our land of fantasy

Chorus